Communication Skills and Personality Development

Your radiating smile is the first thing that enables people to connect with you. A smile gives the parties both comfort, confidence and comprehensive platform to communicate. It actually does not matter if it is a toothy smile or a hearty laugh; it is the genuineness in it that gives it a unique identity. Thus, here it is the smile that replenishes our personality, the overall demeanor that reflects us and our uniqueness. This goes parallel with the verge of our communication skills reflecting our personality.

Communication directly interprets how we express ourselves to the world, how satisfied we are with life and in life. Interactions occur on a daily basis whether it is with our family members, strangers or co-workers, but if the communications are not effective or productive then our life becomes restricted.

Communication skills always help us in handling challenging situations. To be successful in life, great communication skills serve as the stepping stones. A good communicator is always a good listener. In other words, every person with great communication skills is in favor of listening. Communication skills help in gaining the consent and cooperation of the opposite party.

Communications should always be clear, well-reasoned and motivational. Clear communication means a communication that is specifically worded so that there is no ambiguity. People nowadays are more skeptical than before and thus if you want people to believe you; you will need to give ‘reasons to believe’.

Sometimes, even if our statements are true still it cannot draw the attention of the listeners. This is due to the lack of motivation. Motivation involves us in the era of the topic. Thus, we can summarize as a true sense of communication skills ensure us with a well-trained and admirable personality. Effective communication includes both verbal and non-verbal communication.

Effective communication generally occurs away from distraction. While communicating the person’s language and culture are never disregarded. Effective communication focuses the discussion on the information imparted or required. It includes non-verbal communication such as gestures of agreement or denial, smile, etiquettes. This type of communication shows how we act or reinforce the spoken word. It includes body language, eye-contact, facial gestures etc.

Workplace communication is the transmitting of information between one person or group and another person or group in an organization. It can include emails, text messages, voicemails, notes etc. Workplace communication improves worker productivity. It also increases employee job satisfaction.

Expressive skills are those which are used to express ourselves, our feelings, thoughts and expressions and thus get across our point successfully to the listener. Effective communications hire the full attention of the listeners.



A personality is that dress that sets you apart, amidst a crowd. It is the touch of the personality that makes everyone’s focus fixed on you and make you popular. It is the charismatic personality of that person that makes him the center of the attention from the crowd.

Your personality is what makes you. You could have the kindest, nicest heart but if you do not have a personality to match it, nobody will ever get to know you. Personality development is important if you want to leave a positive mark on the people you interact with, whether daily or once. It is what distinguishes one person from the other.

Personality is the mirror of oneself. It is the mixture of an individual’s attitude, mindset, appearance and behavior with others. It impresses the person you communicate leaving an impressive outlook that resonates with people around you, leaving an indelible impression.



While in a professional life, it makes you create a connection with the surrounding people. It makes you look presentable and focused. It makes you punctual. The helping nature approaching people in need reflects the pure development of personality.

Personality development helps you in effective communication expressing your thoughts in the best possible way to get your point across the intended audience. While in work we should never hesitate to share information with our colleagues. Being punctual and on time designate you as responsible and efficient in all respects.

A good and strong personality creates positive vibes around you. A person with a strong personality ought to master the art of expressing their thoughts and feelings in the most desired way. That makes the individual respectable, disciplined and an asset to his/her organization.

It is to be remembered always that an in-disciplined individual finds it difficult to survive in any kind of organization in the long run. This criterion also teaches you to respect the people near you not only your boss or co-workers but also your family members, friends, neighbors, relatives and so on.

To develop a better personality we should not criticize others’ effort or poke fun. We should never ever carry our attitude or personal grudges to work. While working we should always devote the place we work and never rude to be others. This always turns you to be a better person with a right attitude towards life and better social skills.

Personality development also helps you in learning the differentiation between personal and professional life. It helps in keeping a balance between both the lives to lead a peaceful and stress-free life. This helps you gain acceptance from the society and recognition.

Individuals need to have a style of their own for others to follow them. Positive qualities including flexible attitude, friendly nature, punctuality, eagerness to help others, willingness to learn and so on can only be achieved through the means of personality development.

Personality development not only makes you look good and presentable but also helps you in facing the world with a smile. It goes a long way in reducing stress and conflicts and it helps us to see the brighter side of life. Being polite with others will not only make you popular among other people but also help you in earning respect and pride. This makes you shine among a bunch of people.

Concluding Words…

Thus, we can conclude how effective communication leads to a better person and having a strong personality makes us use communication effectively. This both factors are indirectly inter-dependent. These factors teach us how to be a better person with our charisma and social skills.

Communication can help us tackling any kind of hard situation and any kind of person. Developing our own personality helps us to gain our recognition and attain a better position in life. Both these factors help us in leading a successful and stress-free life.

Leave a Comment